Before I tell y’all about my weekend, first I have a confession to make: since Margeaux’s kittens were a day old, the big kittens have been going into the crate with them.
Antoine was the first, and then Madeline joined them, and Amelie did as well.
That’s Madeline in the back, with the attitude.
Make yourself at home, Francois.
Amelie and Henri. Fun fact: when I took this picture, Henri at 10 days old was the same weight Amelie was when we got her at 3-4 weeks old.
Yes, Antoine’s at the milk bar.
At first they would only go into the crate when Margeaux wasn’t in there, and they’d nap near the babies, then when she came back into the crate, they’d get up and leave. This turned into them staying in the crate even when Margeaux was there, and when the little ones were about a week old, I started finding the big kittens at the milk bar. I’d pull them out of the crate when I saw this happening, and distract them with cuddles and kisses and toys. I kept a close watch on the crate and weighed the little ones twice a day to be sure that they were gaining weight (which they were.)
Late Friday night I heard the angry howling of a tiny kitten, and went in to see what was going on. Gabrielle had crawled right on out of the crate and was about 5 feet from the crate, yelling for her mama. As I walked in, Margeaux stomped out of the crate, picked up Gabrielle, and took her back into the crate. The crate they were in – really just a large carrier – doesn’t really have a lip on it, so Gabrielle had no problem crawling right on out. I decided that Saturday morning I’d swap that crate for the larger one I usually use for mamas and babies when they’re that tiny; it’s harder for kittens to crawl out, because the front is about 4 inches high.
Saturday morning, I did just that.
Margeaux didn’t know that she cared for this new crate, but she stayed in it.
To this point, the older kittens had been very very gentle with the babies. They didn’t really touch them, though they’d allow the little ones to snuggle up to them. But as the little ones started moving around more, the older ones would lick them and bat at them a little. Then I walked into the room Saturday afternoon and found a big kitten who shall remain nameless bunny-kicking one of the little ones.
Listen. Kittens are more resilient than you’d think – their mothers sit on them ALL THE TIME and they’re perfectly fine. Charles was rougher with the Half Pints than I would have liked – but he also didn’t have much contact with them until they were about 3 weeks old. So while the kitten was fine after being bunny-kicked, I didn’t want to take the chance that the big kittens (who are still kittens, after all, and aren’t trying to be mean, but they kind of don’t know their own strength) would hurt one or more of the little ones. So I moved the crate with Margeaux and her kittens in it into the guest bedroom.
That was fine until about 10:00 that evening, when Margeaux started HOWLING and digging at the door. She would not be calmed down, and so after some discussion Fred and I decided to move them back into the foster room. Margeaux was very happy to be back in there, and I threw up my hands and decided I’d keep an eye on the crate.
Well. Margeaux decided that that crate – which she hadn’t been sure about to begin with! – was the enemy. Half an hour after she and her kittens got back into the foster room, I saw her grab a kitten and carry it out of the crate. In no time flat, she’d moved 5 of the 6 to the Kitty Cardboard “apartment” over by the couch and left the 6th kitten in the crate with Antoine. A little while later, she moved that kitten to a Kitty Kasa on the opposite side of the room. I watched them for a while, considered moving them back to the crate, and decided I’d leave them where they were for the time being since both Margeaux and Katriane were checking on them frequently.
When Fred got up a few hours later, the very first thing he did was check the kitten room (which he usually doesn’t), and immediately move all the kittens back to the crate. By the time he got to the other end of the hall to report his actions to me, Margeaux had grabbed a kitten and moved it out of the crate. By the time he got BACK to the kitten room, she’d moved all the kittens out of the crate and abandoned them in various places in the room, including one in the middle of the floor.
In the end, we decided to move Margeaux and the kittens AND Katriane into the guest bedroom. We no sooner got them into the guest bedroom (I carried the kittens in the crate while Fred moved Margeaux and Katriance) than Margeaux was moving the kittens. Where’d they end up? Under the bed, of course. Margeaux gave me the cold shoulder for about half an hour, and then acted like she’d never been mad.
As of this writing – 9:00 last night – both Mamas and the little ones are still in the guest bedroom. Both Mamas are tending to the kittens, though I’m not sure whether they’re actually nursing from Katriane, or just being cleaned and snuggled by her.
(Yes, I KNOW, Margeaux totally does not deserve Katriane’s help!)
The plan for now is to leave them in the guest bedroom. That could change, of course. As things stand, the big kittens are scheduled for their spay/neuter surgeries on Friday, and should be heading off at some point after that. We’ve got an adoption pending on Esmee, and someone is coming tonight to meet Jacques and Antoine. That leaves Francois, Madeline and Amelie still available (if you’re interested, email Forgotten Felines at info (at) ffhsv.org .) Once the majority of the kittens have headed off to their homes, I’ll likely move the little ones and the mamas back into the big room and see how it goes.
For now, I’ll have to dig Margeaux’s kittens out from under the bed every morning to weigh them and check them over.
Please note that Margeaux’s leg is resting on Katriane.
The big kittens honestly don’t seem to even notice that their mamas and the little kittens have disappeared.
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Previously
2018: “You ain’t givin’ me a bath, lady. Just dust me off, I’ll be fine.”
2017: No entry.
2016: THE FLOOFIEST.
2015: Roundup: Roseanne.
2014: On Tuesdays, we leap.
2013: ::FLIRT::
2012: No entry.
2011: Who, him? Oh, just some cat. Nothin’ special. Corbie, I think they call him. ::shrug::
2010: He’s gotten past this whole “feral” nonsense at breathtaking speed.
2009: No entry.
2008: Kitten, mid-jump.
2007: No entry.
2006: No entry.
2005: No entry.
Wow! You had quite a weekend. I’m glad to know I’m not the only one in the world that when I try to make things better find out it was best to leave things alone. Much empathy for your situation and glad to hear things worked out in the end. Did you get a pic of that bunny-kick? You could put that black bar over the offender’s eyes so we won’t know who it is. 😉
Black bar….giggle
Whoa!! What a business! So… was Margeaux mainly missing Katriane then, when she put up such a fuss about being in the guest room initially?
Well it has to be said that those pictures of the littles snuggled up to the big kittens are awfully cute!! But yeah, the bunnykicking would be worrisome… 🙁
Frankie!!
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“Blessed are the cat-mad, for they shall be driven up the wall.” — The Big New Yorker Book of Cats
Oh, the drama! This just goes to prove that you are not in charge. Although I have to say seeing babies scattered all over the place would make me nervous… Mamas know best.
Oh my goodness! What a fiasco! It was fun seeing pics of the litters mixing and snuggling, but you’re right; the older kittens are still kittens too and don’t know how to be gentle with the tiny ones.
LOL… why is it that every time you tell us about you & your mama cats moving babies around, I hear the Keystone Kops chase music in my head?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nSnKkuInBhg
Lord have mercy, the bigger kitties in with the babies…those are some of the most adorable pictures ever….
MArgeaux is a mom who knows what she wants for her kids. And gives serious stink eye.
The big and little kittens together are just too adorable! I can’t believe the big kittens will be going soon, I shall miss them so much. It’s been so fun watching them all grow.so appreciative of you posting all these sweet pictures and the fun going-ons of all these kittens and their mamas.
Those pics melted my heart.
I love the pictures of the big kittens with the babies! I know I would be concerned about them hurting the babies, too, but they are so adorable together!
Those pics melted my heart.
I wondered how that was gonna work, 14 cats/3 generations in one room! I guess now I know it’s not a good idea! It was fun seeing the toddlers in with the newborns, but yeah, even tiny aggressions cannot stand. Hope all goes well with everything happening in your life at the moment! 🙂